Are You Born BDSM: Or Is It A Learned Behavior?

Many people are born with a high threshold for pain, some can barely stand a pin prick. Why is it that some people crave pain, whereas others believe the idea of seeking pain play must be a Psychological defect? Does the desire for BDSM stem from an abusive childhood? What differentiates a Sadist from a Masochist and where does a Sadomasochist fit in?

With the myriad of movies and music videos turning Leather and Latex clad Ballet Boot wearing Sexy women, wielding whips over leashed collar wearing blindfolded half naked submissives, into erotic fantasies sexually pleasing to middle America, BDSM is no longer relegated to Dark Warehouses in Meat packing districts or Pornographic Magazines to be hidden under the bed. Everyone is curious, exploring, experimenting and wondering, Who, What, When, Where and Why; Let Us Talk About The Most Important: How.